By that comment I mean by trying to discuss the affair with her, over the course of the 10 years to spark her intimacy and sexual drive.. it pushed her farther away because I suspect she now finds it repulsive and iss feeling the guilt of it. She also cant reconcile that with the fact she hid an EA from me...
But I did push her to discuss it with me and she refused for many years..
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10