Originally Posted By: pookie69
Originally Posted By: idontunderstand
I'm sorry to be so thick headed, but.....

Do I-

1-Dive in and help.

2-Do it myself like I have been for 5 years.

3-Let her do it all.

When she got her job back a month ago with "normal" hours, I thought it would be great with both of us here in the morning. There would be less rushing around, and things would run smoothly. Just the opposite has happened. She is constantly yelling, telling the kids to hurry and do this and that, and telling me she can do it all. I have tried that, too, and she has mede the comment to the kids that she "can't do it all by her self".


None of the above.

Ask "W, how can I help you to get things running smoothly?"



Yep, "how can I help you?" is a powerful question.


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