I am accepting responsibility for allowing her to have the affair 10 years ago and encouraging it. I am also accepting responsibility for my resentment I built up over that time. I am willing to let it go and I am eager to move forward.
I have not come to terms with the EA she is or has had. I did confront both... she is still in the house..
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I understand my actions in our marriage and how I have hurt her and made her feel unimportant by the events of the last 10 years..