Got you.

I am accepting responsibility for allowing her to have the affair 10 years ago and encouraging it. I am also accepting responsibility for my resentment I built up over that time. I am willing to let it go and I am eager to move forward.

I have not come to terms with the EA she is or has had. I did confront both... she is still in the house..


M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10