We've all had dysfunctional relationships in our past, and if both parties are unable to really detatch, then the likely outcome is a competition to see who walks away forever first.
Ugh. I think you are right TH!
But I will say I am proud of John for saying this.. .and just praying he actually sticks to it... do it, John!
I told her I didn't want to work on this M anymore, or the R, and I frankly didn't want to be friends anymore. We've caused too much damage to each other and I didn't want anything to really do with her anymore. I would remain civil for the sake of our child, but I would prefer if we could just move on with our lives.