WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

I see what you mean..
thanks for the rudder steer. Sorry serenity.

[pinhead]

I'm sure there are other TKD classes in your area.

[idontunderstand]

okay so where is the BS?

You know where the BS is.

Don't alienate those who are trying to help.

[Serenity13]

Pen~

No apology is necessary, trust me I understand.

(((Hugs)))

[Pensacolabroken]

Serenity, Pin, Starksy and all,

thanks for the sage advice. I need to look at others who have already paid for the price of admission.

thanks. good words here from all. Sorry if I was so pointed.

[Starsky309]

It's all good, Pcola -- we're here to help.

Starsky

[pookie69]

So now,

I sent her an email on Saturday, telling her I understand my actions in our marriage and how I have hurt her and made her feel unimportant by the events of the last 10 years.. but that I am going to accept my responsibility in what I have done and I am seeking counseling.

What's her story?

[Pensacolabroken]

Pook,

not sure I understand the question?

[pookie69]

Pook,

not sure I understand the question?

What are you accepting responsibility for?

[Pensacolabroken]

Got you.

I am accepting responsibility for allowing her to have the affair 10 years ago and encouraging it. I am also accepting responsibility for my resentment I built up over that time. I am willing to let it go and I am eager to move forward.

I have not come to terms with the EA she is or has had. I did confront both... she is still in the house..