Of course you can decide to handle the situation however you see best. I'm simply telling you that, from my personal experience, the course of action you have chosen is extremely painful, can be detrimental to your self-esteem and self-respect, and doesn't produce results. What does work is what Rob and Coach have recommended.
I remember being a newbie and not listening to the advice given to me because my sitch was sooo different from everyone else's.
It wasn't until months into my sitch that I decided I had nothing to lose and started listening to the advice given.
That's when things change for me. I was/am so much happier and now I have been given the chance to regain my M.
Keep an opened mind when advice is given.
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