In fact, this is kind of stupid.

I told Mr. A last Sunday that I wanted to see and talk to him. Maybe that was stupid, but that's what I said. Then I backpedaled a little and said that I had to give him his stuff.

He said that he could just come over and get his stuff when I wasn't there. I said no, I wanted to talk to him. He said ok, he would call me with his schedule.

Then he came over today and got his stuff while I wasn't there. He does what he wants.

I'm not gonna bother being mad about it - I don't really care. I'm not pursuing a conversation with him either. Now he has his stuff and that's that. It was as stupid excuse to meet with him anyway. If he wants to avoid talking to me so badly, then how valuable could our conversation really be?