Well first interview with lawyer, on to # 2 on Monday. W said s14 is wondering if we're having martial issues, she told him that we would both talk to the kids about it. I told her to be prepared to own the D decision as I will not have this presented to them as a mutual decision.

She's stated she's done again this morning during a heated conversation, and that she will not leave the home. This is so great for kids and myself, I am getting so angry that she is doing this to them and isn't acknowledging what this process is going to do to their way of life - my love and attention is all I can provide to them, but the fact that they will lose their home and everything they are accustom to really is making my blood boil.

I hope that I can prove to the court that her previous EA and current EA with married men "just friends" will provide enough grounds for a motion to have her leave the home - CA is a tough state as far a D law goes.

Man I am pissed off!

DD


Me 49
H 46
M 23yrs
T 25 yrs
Bomb Drop 4/2010
S22/D19/D15/S13

Same roof, different beds

"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."