Well first interview with lawyer, on to # 2 on Monday. W said s14 is wondering if we're having martial issues, she told him that we would both talk to the kids about it. I told her to be prepared to own the D decision as I will not have this presented to them as a mutual decision.
She's stated she's done again this morning during a heated conversation, and that she will not leave the home. This is so great for kids and myself, I am getting so angry that she is doing this to them and isn't acknowledging what this process is going to do to their way of life - my love and attention is all I can provide to them, but the fact that they will lose their home and everything they are accustom to really is making my blood boil.
I hope that I can prove to the court that her previous EA and current EA with married men "just friends" will provide enough grounds for a motion to have her leave the home - CA is a tough state as far a D law goes.
Man I am pissed off!
DD
Me 49 H 46 M 23yrs T 25 yrs Bomb Drop 4/2010 S22/D19/D15/S13
Same roof, different beds
"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."