XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

[lea74]

Sorry, lots of rambling today. Money has been transferred - he left it until the last minute before it was due. (Typical!!)

Sent XH a text earlier to say that son had been chosen to represent the school. I know, I probably shouldnt have text him, but sinisterly I did as OW used to text him all the time, (and I mean all the time) so I was just bothering them back.

Blew up in my face though!! He texted back to say THEY were both proud - puke!! They also then each sent my son a text on his phone. One from dad, one from OW. OW said, sending you (my son) an extra big hug. Barf!! She has been warned about texting them previously as she did it all the time. However, I guess now she thinks she has a right as she will be their evil step ...... (sorry not ready to acknowledge that yet).

I really dont know how to handle this anymore!!! I am their mother - why wont they both just acknowledge that - I am not going anywhere and I look after my sons 99% of the time. This behaviour is just really disrespectful. I think my expectations may be too high!!!