No, Coach. It's not. But is there no value in being patient? Did you have a situation where throwing the proverbial kaibosch (kybosh, kibosh?!) down worked to your benefit and to the benefit of your marriage??
M9+ T 11+ Me42 H44 2 kids under 5 IlYBNILWY -3/10 A discovered late 8/10 H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later "Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10