No, Coach. It's not. But is there no value in being patient? Did you have a situation where throwing the proverbial kaibosch (kybosh, kibosh?!) down worked to your benefit and to the benefit of your marriage??


M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10