Trust me on this. No one who posts on this board is set against any reconciliation. Advice is given freely, honestly, and based on the info provided. Take a step back and realize this.
If you expect the forum posters to parrot what you are thinking and feeling (which is natural and comforting) you'll be missing out on years of wisdom, pain and suffering that everyone here has been through.
Good advice is like good medicine. Often it hurts.
