WAW 20 years and wants out

[Serenity13]

Pen~

No offense taken, just making sure your eyes are wide open as to everything going on around you.

I have said nothing about R in your relationship so don't put words in my mouth, I didn't judge, just stated back what you had said. Don't try to mindread me, it can't be done.

I would like nothing more than to see all of the newbies here R, however sometimes it just isn't an option and you need to make sure you realize this.

I am not here to stroke your ego, if you don't like what I have to say, that is your option, however don't come here looking for a magic wand to fix your marriage.

You need to drop the pursuing and work on you, focus on your child and yourself.

get her to move to a Neutral place to be able to TRIAGE the R

Stop focusing on this because this...

She refuses to look at the future, because she is busy rewriting the past

is what you are going to get.

how you would set a boundry on this?

W, if you want to come to MC to work on our marriage, wonderful, however I am going to be in there to work on this together, not sitting outside doing homework with S.

MC is for 2 partners who both are wanting to work on their marriage, not just one.