Trying to grow a backbone!

[ClingingToHope]

Basically, you've started the recovery clock over again. A friend of mine divorced a couple of years ago. Then six months after the divorce they started the relationship over.

I was talking to him a lot early last year. They have a kid with Asberger's and they had moved back in together. He was kind of my hope.

But in the summer, after I found out STBXW was spotted at the county fair with another guy, we were talking and he said not to put too much stock into his story because they were splitting up again.

"In the end, there are just things we don't like about each other," he said. And he added "I wished we'd never gotten back together because it brought all of the pain back again."

Please don't wait around for Mr. A. If he comes sniffing around, make him work, really work hard to get your trust back.