Now I'm Walking Away Part 2

[pookie69]

You are doing great. I'm sure you couldn't have imagined you would make it this far. Keep it up and heed Coach's advice. I think he is dead on when it comes to this point in the R. You are close and it still could go either way. You seem to be in the right frame of mind with accepting any outcome. Coach is showing you the path that has the best chance of getting the best outcome for all involved.

That goes without saying.

I am still mad at myself that I did not grab my W by the ears the other day and stuffed her like a Thanksgiving turkey on my brand new Ferrari boiler.

[Coach]

F#cking hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life.

Challenges you - emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually. Your values, beliefs, thoughts, fears, dreams and feelings have to be examined. You find out what you can handle. Sharpens your thoughts, emotions and actions. It's a opportunity to have the marriage you both want.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I am still mad at myself that I did not grab my W by the ears the other day and stuffed her like a Thanksgiving turkey on my brand new Ferrari boiler.

Wha, wha, what did you say???

[pookie69]

I am still mad at myself that I did not grab my W by the ears the other day and stuffed her like a Thanksgiving turkey on my brand new Ferrari boiler.

Wha, wha, what did you say???

I said I lost an opportunity.

[Steve McQueen]

she said "Because I'll do anything for my babies."

You should put that in your book.

It sums everything up.

[FindingMyVoice]

Help her feel the consequences of her not doing the work.

Hi Pinhead, as usual, Coach's advice is spot on. Nothing to add here, just wanted to send you my support. Take good care of yourself today. FMV.

[pinhead]

she said "Because I'll do anything for my babies."

You should put that in your book.

It sums everything up.

Steve, could you elaborate please? I'm on three hours sleep...

[gutwrenching]

I'll tell you what I think from "do anything for my babies"...she isn't all in yet. She has to want to work on marriage because its what she wants, she has to want her H back...not just make it easier on the kids.

She is cracking, but is not there yet

I learned the hard way, that doing it for the kids isn't enough...that lasted about a week. You need to know that you are the reason to stay together and she is all in for rebuilding the M

[pinhead]

Knowing SmQ, there was more to it than her not being all in. And usually I love his riddles, but this one is either too easy or too obtuse for me.

[pinhead]

Thanks for all the support guys, I'm a lot more clearheaded now.