WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

Serenity, I am glad you and your husband were able to do those deployments without you having an affair. The MC is not to "fix" the marriage right now, it is to get her to move to a Neutral place to be able to TRIAGE the R. I have no hope of fixing it if she is getting all her positive reinforcement from EA OM... She refuses to look at the future, because she is busy rewriting the past.. about how unhappy she is..

gr8, I know? Thats what I mean about mixed signals.. I have no idea.. I didnt pressure though.. I simply asked her to go she said she would think about it then this morning the texts..