I chose the road less traveled by #32

[kat727]

I also remember him saying that she was tired of mothering him ie putting limits on him that he should have been able to put on himself. So then when they consider themselves "free"(though still married) he is out with someone for sex that probably wasn't putting any limits on him and he felt in charge. Sounds like he has some work to do on his end if he wants to stay married. Only have heard his side so can't offer anything up on her. Except maybe let your man grow up, if he comes back he is yours, if he doesn't he never was.

kat