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I am not in a position to give her an ultimatum yet
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Ultimatums are bad for a R. Learn to set boundaries and be willing to enforce them.

A boundary gives the person a choice in a loving way. Ultimatums are controlling.
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on a PLUS side, she texted me this morning saying she WOULD go to MC on Monday onthe condition we bring our son. she said she will sit with the MC while I help him do his homework

What's this all about???

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