It sure is hard. I commend you for keeping your stand. Now she will begin to think about your attractiveness.
I have the same decision to make with my W. I would the kids to have a complete family growing up and if we stay together the finances would be extremely easy.
I agree with you in that we can't just do it for the kids or money. It has to be for the right reasons.
Keep leading she is being pulled closer to you now.
one day at a time, don't horse it!
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