This is one of the hardest things to deal with, at least for me. You will hear some of the "future" talk, things about next year, she'll use "we" a lot, "us", on and on. We are all here to save out M so, naturally, we take all of this as a good thing. And it may be, but keep the goals you have set in mind and try to stay on an even keel.
Things will not improve the the way you want them to and the way they need to while the OM is in the picture. PERIOD.
Pay attention to her actions and put much less faith in her words.
