Thanks for all the responses. I did read Divorce Remedy twice. I am an idiot, I am going to leave her alone because last night she spent the night the OM. Boy that pain hurts. Anyway not talking to her about R is I think the best advice I can get right now. If this continues and she does not come around, we will lose everything and I mean everything. I love my kids but because of all the fighting we have done in front of them, several of them are not happy with me right now. When the W and I are together we argue. Is it not better to live apart and not argue in front of the children. I mean I can't help myself sometimes. Plus how would I feel when I see her getting dolled up for a date with the OM. Anyway ant advice is wlecome at this point. Thanks bunch
"Wife, I understand I hurt you and you are angry at me for my bad behavior in the past. Right now I will not live in a open marriage. If you do not cut off all contact immediately then I will pack your bags, you will leave and I will file for a D."
If she goes out then you have all her stuff in the garage. No drama just time for her to start respecting you and your family.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
