I'm trying to learn this DB stuff, but I thought John was "going dark." Are we supposed to call our wife and talk about the relationship when we're going "dark" or "dim"?

Sorry for the stupid questions, but this is something I struggle with.

Starsky

M 38
W 37
S 8
D 7

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)