I have known this woman a long time. She is honest and answers my questions. She knows she f--ked up and is trying to make ammends but she is always cautious to lead me on and I have expressed my fears also. She has said that sveral times. She is confused about what she did It was not a long term thing. She got pdrunk and pissed off and grabbed the first thing that came along and now regrets it. I want to save our marriage because I love this woman dearly. I know I have a weak spot for her. But I told her cheating will not be tolerated and she better fix this and she agreed. If I find out differently its over. But I feel stronger now, more in control over the last weeks of crying and asking why this hppened? I now know why and what we did to get to this point as a coulpe. We have discussed it backwarsd and frowards. Communication has always been one of our issues. The Co will address the infidelity with her. If she is still involved he will let me know.
