Hi Savemymarr-
Thank you for all of that. I genuinely appreciate your interest and the time you took to write that to me.
I raised myself as a child and learned at an early age that I can take care of myself and don't need anyone...obviously that can have some significant negative impact on a relationship, but it is serving me well now.
I am finally moving toward the mentality of 'if he figures it out in time, ok, I will go to MC with him, if not... I have a whole lot going for me: I am a genuinely good and caring person, I will be a specialist in 40 weeks, I was genetically blessed and I am regaining my sense of self.
I am curious, if the day ever comes and I still want to pursue it... what did you think of Retrouvaille?


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."