Yes, Lance, I hear you and Sanderika.

Sanderika, I had no intention of mentioning Christmas, just that my parents were receptive to seeing him again...a change cos they have not been for 3 years. I'm thinking of you with the court coming up.

Tonight....weekly dinner
1. H brings wine. D comments about the wine (neither us of us have drinking issues). H jokingly replies, " You drive us both to drink, D." I note the use of 'us'

2. H invites D to go with him to the airport and to have dinner with him and his parents tomorrow night.

3. H says he is cooking a roast for parents Sunday night and invites D and I to come along. When I check the time later in the night he asks what suits me as I have work the next day

4. I suggest to H we work on his job application after dinner. He asks, "Are you sure? I know you've had a busy week. You're looking very tired. "

5. We have plenty of easy convo about variety of topics

6. H offers to take D to swimming and her massage appoint tomorrow