Newbie Stuck Between LRT and a Hard Place

[gutwrenching]

Read Gucci's post again...its the first thing I thought of when reading yours. I know it sucks to hear, but chances are very high that your W is having an affair of some sort.

Is she secretive about computers, phones? Spend a lot of time on either? Go out alone a lot? Dressing different, etc?

Look for the clues, but don't ask her or accuse her, she will deny, deny, deny...