Wanted: Large dose of patience

[Sanderika]

Hi Cas,

I agree, do not take the paperwork to H "just to get it over with". Please don't do this....

I toyed with the thought hundreds of times....I did not.

It was only when H had me served a 2nd time and forced my hand, to have to answer his served complaint against me, that I took it upon myself to counterclaim him....In my court: H is the Plaintiff and I am the Defendant. This is H's divorce.

Let yours (if it comes to that) be H's too!!

IMO...Christmas is still a ways off....Refrain from pressuring H about your family wanting to see him again and early invites to H to spend it with you and the family. Let's see what unfolds in the next 45 days. To me it would give H ideas of your expectations and right now that would be pursuing.

I'm thinking of you every day, (((Hugs)))

Sanderika

PS...I'm zooming down the D track...I have to be in court on 11/5/10 for my initial appearance, appt is at 2:00pm (That will be a rough weekend to get through)