After a bit of reflection and calming down, I thought this may be a better response:
Yeah, that is why we have made this decision as we think it is really important that structure is maintained for our sons and that they know what to expect. I am sorry that you feel unable to keep this comittment to our sons though.
WE = my sons and I and some input from my mom and sister. OUR = XH and Me
Any thoughts now??
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived