XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

[lea74]

Hi, thanks for the reply. I think it is great that your XH acknowledges you still as your child's mother. You are right though it is like a puzzle with them, finding out which pieces fit them best to make their perfect little world.

To be honest I think my XH would be happy to strip me of all DNA as he doesnt acknowledge me as their mother. In fact he never has. Even when we were married he always thought I never did enough. I work part time so he could pursue his career and travel and as and when needed. I did everything related to the kids, school runs, home, activities, doctors as well as all the housework and also work. Really not sure what more I could have done. My XH considers OW and my sosns to be his familuy now - even said so to me. Every decision he makes about my sons, she is included and consulted. Me - never.

I am just his babysitter - just looking after his kids until he is able to see them. He also cancels all arrangments at his whim and assumes that I will be available to watch them - apparently I dont have a life. Also when he does cancel the arrangments it is never with me - but via my kids.

All very frustrating.