Do you know Trusting, it is awesome reading your posts and following your saga, I still cannot believe some of the antics and actions of these drained other halfs, it rings a bell as to say that they appear all nervous round you but they know that there is something important happening in a few weeks time, it is like it is the calm before the storm, he wouldnt of mentioned it because he would be afraid of you scorning him, what is good is that he turned up to you childs school conference, have to say my ex only attended one in all the five years we have been split, what I will never understand is how these guys turn on their children, keep your chin up Trusting, you and I have been at this a very long time and had one hell of a journey each, I myself have jumped off the crazy train now, and to hell with my ex, but even though I say that I dont think the heart will ever truly let go. onward and upward though, I wish us both a happy ending to what has got to be the worst period ever in someones life. xxxcx