Interesting, my way of forgiving is very different from that. The thought of what I'm angry at comes into my head and I mentally call up either the memory of me doing something equally bad or him doing something nice. The positive cancels out the negative and I make the decision to let it go. I won't get angry about that thing. And it's gone. I will admit that I think the wrongs that I am faced with forgiving are easier to deal with than what Kalni, Cyrena and Saffie have dealt with. And for that, I am thankful. Things can always be worse.