Um..ouch. While I appreciate your sentiment, I wasn't asking for an opinion on what I'm doing. I was asking for input on a specific method Michelle mentioned in DR.

You can say I have low self-esteem. You can even suggest I'm in denial after reading my response. We all have our own ways of dealing with our situations. I'd rather not be put down by the way I'm choosing to deal with mine.

If there is anyone who has been able to detach lovingly, it would be great to hear from you.

Thanks

M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10