I understand this concept in theory but would really appreciate further insight into how this actually looks/plays out on a day-to-day basis.

My H and I are currently living in the same home, sharing the same bed (no sex) while he is trying to figure out if he can love me the way I need to be loved and the way he wants to love a wife (his words, not mine). There is an OW, although it is my understanding from H that he has cut off communication with her, not in order to recommit to our relationship but to be "fair" to all involved while he is making his decision.

This is incredibly difficult for me but I believe in our marriage and want to do all I can before I even begin to consider moving on.

If any veterans or others currently in this situation can give me some advice or insight into what worked and didn't work for them, I'd really appreciate it.

Thanks

M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10