Its been a lovely day today. My house is sort of under control and I purchased a nice new quilt cover set and popped it on. H has been over most of the day. When I came home from school drop off I realised I had NEW kitchen taps. Have been having lots of trouble with the old ones and these ones are very expensive. He asked me to go out to the shops with him. So I did. He also purchased car seat covers. he says it's to get rid of the girly ones I had on the car. fair enough. I like dragons as well so no problem there. lol He is doing up his car, and he was looking at stickers I was admiring one and he came along and purchased it to put on his car. I had a thought that this doing up his car is a dream of his. i always knew he wanted to do it and actually I did try to encourage him once many moons ago but he never went thorugh with it. I am glad to see him actually following one of his dreams. I like the fact thtat he asks me for input into things in regards to the car. I always say what i prefer and funnily(?) enough more often then not it was what he was thinking anyway.
I did my study and played with Miss1 while he does what he does with the car. Occassionally i wander out there to have a peek, but on a whole let him be.
I like this no pressure thing. for the pressure isn't just off him it is also off of me to perform a certain way.
We will have nice tea and they will stay till about 8pm or so before he takes them over night while I work.
And tomorrow I will not rush home after work (I finish at 9am) to wait for them to come back I will wander down to a market and enjoy myself for a while. If they come home fine, if they don't fine.
No expectations moving forward with my eyes on the prize... MY LIFE.
