I do believe I am doing the right thing, the way I am handling all of this.
As long as YOU do that really is all that matters.
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WHO am I standing for? And at this moment, I don't even feel like I am standing so-to-speak. I honestly don't know what I am doing other than continuing on with my life, remaining the rock and the constant for my children.
Honestly, IMO this ^^^^ is the right STAND. You are standing for YOU and YOUR children and YOU are giving YOUR H the time and space he needs.
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He doesn't finish ANYTHING to completion
Actions and behaviors in the past ARE not always indicative of actions and behaviors of someone in the future.
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So I went out to Lowes and bought the damn knobs and handles myself!
DO you do drywall? LOL....seriously, this is another good step FOR YOU. Take charge over your life and YOUR house. Do what you can and expect nothing from him.
Jennifer, keep doing what you are doing. Be that strong MOM that the kids need BUT also...remember to take some time for YOU.
Do something for you Jennifer...nails, pedi, workout, go out with friends...something. If you do not you will begin to resent YOUR H, which is not good for YOU or HIM.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
