OH GOOD- I didn't sound too cold. Here is what I said to City Guy:
"Thank you so much for meeting with me and treating me to dinner- I was not intending to get a free meal or anything! But I have been emailing another fella and met him tonight. I feel more of a connection with him. I'm sorry- but you know how it goes...sometimes there is just really strong chemistry right away. Take care, NM"

ANd he replied "no worries. Take care,beautiful :)"

And I heard from Country Boy who said he would totally meet up on Saturday and wanted to know what was keeping me busy. "Work? Let me guess, grading?"

haha!

So much easier to play hard to get when you are really busy! I did reply and say that I was busy at work but also had some social events with friends and family (true! My aunt came over and I met a new friend..."city guy")


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004