Mystik, I think you're doing pretty good. I have to agree with IDU, rules change when kids are involved. You'll have to interact for several more years. That's why I think detaching is so important in our types of sitch's. I think you have to be detached in order to deal. I'm sorry for what he's put you through, no one deserves that. Unfortunately it's something that has to be woken up from, sucks. You can do it though and you and your S will come out better in the end.


Me: 24
H: 26
2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3
H filed D papers: 8/2/10
OW discovered: 08/10
D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10
There is no method to my madness