On Monday Oct 4th I get a weird text from her that says
"I am in agony. I dont know what to do. I dont want to hurt him I know he loves me"
I knew immediately what that meant and I logged in to our cellphone records and she had been blowing up a strange number for days with texts. I called her she told me she wanted a divorce. I went home and we talked. SHe said "She loves me, YOur awesome etc, I just feel like I married the wrong person" I asked her you mean you dont love me like a husband and she said no I love you like that but your not the right guy"
She said shes tried for a long time to get me to do stuff to fix this but I never responded or would stop. This is true.
She said shes not having an affair that the guy is just a friend. I have verified some of that but its obviously an emotional affair. The guy is everything she wanted to be but he's 22. So I think thats the big thing....
We have a 10 year old son. She just turned 38 on Monday. Married 10 years.
There so much more to write but its hard for me. I'll write more later.
