Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

[HopelessInLove]

Starsky,
Yes, Honesty is improtant, but in my sitch I confronted W early on in the EA and it just went deeper underground. If OM fiance knows and confronts him he may deny it and get pushed closer to my W, say yes there is something going on,end it with fiance, and then go after my W pushing their R to a diffent place, or lastly break the A off with W. Could that then harbor feelings between each other since they work together? Could another A between them happen in future? IDK

I do know this OM was saying to W something to the effect about not ruining R with his fiance. Maybe the OM is starting to have 2nd thought of having a young family again he has 2 20 something Ds. My W has a lot of baggage, maybe he is starting to see that and realizes he does not want that drama. IDK

I do know this, I have been in a holding pattern with my R/M since April. Not much has changed, except her making phone calls to the L, I will continue to hold on for now. Until, I have another mental breakdown. But for now I may not be in love with her but I still love her and want the R/M to be mended.