BTW, if you really want to get into the mind of an adulterous spouse, go to survivinginfidelity.com and you can read some of the responses there.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER