How should I proceed now? Is there hope?

[NotCrackingUp]

Thanks a lot you two!
HIH, I'm not ready (nor is my bank account) to call in the law yet, but I get your point. I suppose he was always a bit of a kid in some ways - aren't all men? Only (half) codding! he used not be a cad or anything like that, let's say he's exploring that side of his personality at the moment. I'm prepared to give him a lot of slack, but although I'm very patient, I have my limits, and I might well surprise even myself one day when those limits are reached and there'll be no way back.

Thanks, Pinhead, for the bit about the volcano people make sacrifices to. I've been too long the thingy on which people wipe their feet...

Must go, it's shockingly late in France. School tomorrow.

NCU