Why is she going to Co then? She txted me saying she had to cancel Tuesday. I told her I would take tuesday and she can go Thursday when I was to go and I sent her the Co #. Than she promised she would not be "with" the guy till we figure it out. That the party is in 2 weeks and she has not seen him in 2 weeks and is out of town with the ladies(this was planned awhile) this weekend. That she is not inviting him as her date for the wedding Nov 27th.
Whatever!
You do realize that when she talks to you in that way, you have effectively become option #2 (the backup option), the fact that she still considers the other guy an option makes you option #2.
