She dropped the bomb last week by accident. Now we're in the process of a "break" we're in the same house, separate beds. I am just now starting to try the Last Resort method. We are getting along now that I am not crying and chasing. One thing though should I still say I love you when she drops me at work and when we go to bed or should I stop that.
i don't say it like needy etc.. I just say "good night I love you" then go to bed if shes in the room Im in. She doesnt cringe or anything and says it back.
thoughts?
typically the bomb is described as....
"I love you but I'm not in love with you"
"I don't love you anymore, I want a divorce"
"I'm having an affair with the entire offensive line-up on team XXX" (fill in your favorite football)
etc. etc. etc.
Usually when your spouse drops the bomb, it's an indication that they feel like they DON'T love you anymore, so telling them that you "love" them is usually counter-productive.
