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Well I guess she's past ignoring and avoiding me now. W stays around the house more. Must have been another "phase".

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Got the appraisal back for our house. now it's up to W to make the next moves. We are just existing, like it's all my fault.

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W said she checked with her bank about a loan to buy my part of the house. She said this will be best for both of us.
Some opinions on my position, please.

I have been doing my own thing, and not bothering her at all.

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I haven't had any responses for quite some time, so here are my thoughts:
- even though W fits the MLC sitch, I wonder with her changes starting about 5 years ago if us being married so young that she truly is not happy with our marriage.
- I don't know if god has kept me hanging in there so long because W needs the help (the original bomb being about 1 yr.) and things will work. Or he his trying to show me things are over and that there is something better coming if I just move on.
I'm sure alot of others have had these thoughts, feeling that they deserve to receive the love like they give.

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I'm starting to feel as though my thread has become only a journal for me. But I also understand that people on this board are going through their own sitch and don't have the answers.

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Comments anybody?

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Morning, Bobby - really sorry to see things seem to be deteriorating for you. It doesn't really sound like you're piecing anymore, and if she's talking to bankers it sounds like you could use some feedback and insight quickly. I almost wonder if you'd have more luck from the busier traffic on the newcomers board? Take care, FMV.


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Hi Bobby,

You just find a different focus here in Piecing, and I'd like to see you stay solution oriented. I will take some more time to read through your situation in the next day or two and I will post here.

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Bobby, what was it like when things were good?


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