XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

[lea74]

I sent XH an email this morning suggesting that we cancel thursday night visits as the last few have been cancelled (by him but I didnt point the finger). I said that I knew he would agree that we must give the boys structure and consistency.

Well I havent had a response as yet, which I find interesting. I was expecting a blasting email back. This is what I would normally have got.

Not sure if there was no response as I used a different tone than a usually do. I am always defensive with him and this time I tried to be calmer and be a parent (not the victim) or if he just doesnt care. I dont like to play games and I know that I always over analyse things so maybe I should just be grateful that I didnt get the usual ear-full.