H called this a.m. to talk to the kids and then started crying because he feels they don't really care to talk him and don't say much on the phone
Sounds like guilt and deep depression to me.
Jennifer, I hope that one of the MLC vets could chime in on your thread.
IMO, I think you are doing exactly what you need to do. You cannot fix him BUT you are trying to be as supportive as you can be.
Continue to be strong for YOUR kids.
Continue to live your life.
Maybe...just maybe...he will come out of this.
Love Jennifer CAN conquer all.
YOU are not sure of what your feeling...that's okay.
Question should be...
Why are you standing and WHO are you standing for.
What are your core values?
What are your views on committment.
I can see your strength Jennifer....
No one said this was easy...
Just remember...
How you live YOUR life is YOUR Choice....
Me - I love my W. I will wait for her....Until...
I decide I no longer will.
Lastly, IMO, right now YOU do not have to choose anything...
You can just live and LOVE.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
