How life got to this point is a whole other concern and you can read about and discuss "healthy boundaries"
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If your spouse is cheating on you and you fail to act on it your lack of action conveys that their behavior is permissable to you.
Minor point: if it is not permissable to you (you don't want a spouse to cheat on you-and why would you?), then that is a healthy boundary.
What you are unfortunately being asked to do is debate whether or not it's a good idea to enforce a very healthy boundary. You will never win this argument with somebody who is willfully codependent.
The very fact that they made this personal rather than dealing with the advice at all should tip you off.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 10/14/1008:08 PM.
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