I have a question, I sent the OM a text message. I told him that if he knew my wife at all, he would know how important her family is to her. That by her choosing to be with him she has given up all of that. Her family will never welcome him, he will never be invited to family functions and he will never be accepted. I then went one step further and sent him copies of her emails to me tell me she had packed all her belongings into her car and quit her job so she would never have to see or talk to OM again. She hoped I would still let her come home. That she did have some feelings for OM but she had love for me and that that love was more important than mere feelings. I then told him to think about what he really had invested in the relationship, is it worth all the aggrevation that he would have to deal with. She obviously didnt love him like he thought, and he would always have to deal with me as my wife an I have a 20 year history. I also told him the kids know what he represents and that I am in the process of taking legal action to keep him away from my children.
So what's everyones opinion on this move? Good, Bad, should I have shut my mouth? All i want to do is get the 2 of them apart. thats my goal right now. I feel I am strong enough to handle any back lash for my actions. Give me your thoughts.
