I'm not actually seeing her, I'm getting them from school, so I won't see her.
This is so hard but I have to be the dad the kids are proud of, I have paint books so they can tell me what colour they want their bedrooms painting, and next time they are here it will be done!!!
What do I do if they don't want to go back, I don't want to upset them anyfurther, but I also need to do the right thing, which is they go back with their mother and maybe tell her how they feel rather than it coming from me