My 40 year old wife's MLC

[Albuquerque]

That is unless you stop and keep your mouth shut…

Oh…did I mention to keep your mouth shut.

In case you didn't get Eric's message, ^^^^^^^^ this is the most important TACTIC you can learn!!!!

I'll repeat it a third time. You say nothing. Work on yourself. If she wants to talk about stuff, let her. Let HER talk. You listen. And you STILL say very little back. Trust me, she won't notice. If YOU want to talk about stuff, find a way not to. That is what these boards are for. Live your life for yourself and keep it to yourself. That is what YOU need right now. I'm sorry you find yourself here but this is the best worst place to be.